The Truth About Trans Women

Countering transphobic talking points

Pax Ahimsa Gethen
4 min readJul 24, 2023
Lexi Adsit, Mia “Tu Mutch” Satya, Shawn Demmons, and Melanie Ampon (“Nya”) emcee the 2016 Trans Day of Visibility celebration in San Francisco. Photo by Pax Ahimsa Gethen, CC BY-SA 4.0.

In the United States, trans people have been facing a multi-year onslaught of legislative attempts to deny our identities and curtail our rights. The primary targets of these transphobic bills — some of which have become law — are trans women and girls.

The main movers behind this wave of hatred are conservatives and TERFs (trans-exclusionary radical feminists, who usually call themselves “gender-critical”). They claim their efforts are to protect women, by which they mean cisgender women, though they rarely use or acknowledge that term.

In arguing for their case, transphobic people state a number of false claims about the dangers of trans-affirming medical procedures and “ideology”. These falsehoods have been debunked by knowledgeable folks, including trans author and biologist Julia Serano, whose writing I highly recommend. But they also repeat more glib talking points, which I will address below.

You can’t change your sex.

Correct. Trans people do not transition in order to change their sex, but to confirm it.

Many, though not all, trans women knew from early childhood that they were girls, even if they didn’t have the knowledge or safety to express these feelings at that time. Transitioning helps…