No, Trans People Are Not Normal

Indeed, we are extraordinary.

Members of El/La Para TransLatinas speak on a stage in the Compton’s Transgender Cultural District, at the conclusion of the 2019 San Francisco Trans March. Photo by Pax Ahimsa Gethen, CC BY-SA 4.0.

Transgender and non-binary folks in the USA are living in a time of great visibility, but also great vulnerability. Defining and defending our identities and communities can be exhausting when faced with an onslaught of invasive questions and incorrect presumptions, even from “well-meaning” people.

As part of a response to trans-antagonistic charges that we are deviant and dangerous, some folks in our community have countered that being transgender or non-binary is a normal state of being. In his TEDx Talk, “Ending Gender”, trans actor Scott Turner Schofield said that cisgender people — people who identify with the sex they were assigned at birth — aren’t “normal”, just “common”.

Speaking as an agender trans male, my feeling is this: No, there is nothing wrong with being trans. Identifying with a gender or genders that differ from one’s sex assigned at birth is a valid part of the spectrum of gender, just as being gay or bisexual is a valid part of the spectrum of sexuality. This is true regardless of what medical or legal interventions one pursues to align their gender expression with their gender identity.

However, transgender and non-binary people — though we have always existed — will never be more than a small part of the human population. Being trans or…