Good insights into issues in non-monogamous communities. I was active in the local (San Francisco area) polyamory scene for a number of years, but haven’t been since around the time I started my gender transition, for various reasons. I still feel strongly that I’m not personally wired for monogamy, but I don’t see polyamory as a more “evolved” lifestyle, though I might have done so in the past. It’s simply not for everyone.