Funny - I'm an avid gamer and have never played Baldur's Gate, but I have played quite a bit of Nethack, and just seeing the words "mind flayer" gives me the heebie-jeebies. In the ASCII-based game that monster is represented by a lowercase "h", so I don't know what it's actually supposed to look like :-)

(There is seduction in Nethack, but only with nymphs, succubi, and incubi, and only at their initiative.)

ETA: Now I see that The Emperor is a mind flayer.... not my kink, I'm afraid!