Cisgender Affirming Surgeries

The gender binary hurts everyone, but is breaking bones a cure?

Pax Ahimsa Gethen
4 min readMay 2, 2022
Illustration depicting common fracture locations of femur. CC BY-SA 3.0 by SMART-Servier Medical Art on Wikimedia Commons.

Last week, BuzzFeed posted an article that went viral, about men who are shorter than average stature getting surgery to increase their height. The limb-lengthening procedure involves deliberately breaking bones in the patient’s legs.

I had heard about surgeries like this for people who are much shorter than average, who face practical obstacles in a society that is not designed to accommodate short adults. As the BuzzFeed article points out, the surgery has also been used to correct limbs of mismatched length. But I had not heard of people who are 5' 6" or taller pursuing leg lengthening as an elective, cosmetic surgery.

Men shorter than the current US-American average height of 5' 9" are frequently mocked and rejected as romantic or sexual partners. Especially as I’ve always been attracted to shorter men, I consider these judgments ridiculous and offensive, but I can’t deny that they occur. Under binary gender expectations, men are expected to be tall, and women short, and…

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