…ve said before, gender as a whole seems like a giant social delusion. It just makes no sense to me. What do my genitals have to do with what colors I prefer or what jobs I might be good at or who I might connect with better as a friend or romantic partner? I recognize others may feel differently, but to me it is all nonsense. As an autist, I’ve lived through the difficult part of gender nonconformity, which was my teen year…